Writing our typical content is often difficult at this time of year. We have more to do, and our schedules fill quickly. Presents must be purchased, wrapped, and shipped. Projects are often readied for launching in the new year, giving us pressing deadlines. Christmas plays and presentations keep us busy on evenings and weekends, rather than allowing us to recharge.
But, best of all, and maybe also inspiring the most frenzied of our efforts, family arrives, taking us completely away from our work to enjoy an even higher priority – our relationships built on love and commitment.
This is the season to prioritize the Lord, your family, and your giving.
To do so, step away from extra duties, activities, and appointments. Skip that party if you can. Avoid that loud event that will send you home with a headache and regrets. Maybe even dispense with Christmas cards. Minimize your shopping. Stop the craziness.
Step away from extra duties. Skip that party. Avoid that loud event that will send you home with a headache and regrets. Dispense with Christmas cards. Stop the craziness. Focus on the reason-Jesus himself. Click To TweetFocus on the reason — Jesus himself. Spend time with the Lord, concentrating on his Word and prayer. He is what our celebration is all about, and from him flows all else.
The main event took place in the lives of an obscure young Jewish woman and her betrothed. It happened in backwater portions of the land of Israel, first in Nazareth and then in Bethlehem, villages void of crowds and noise until taxation forced throngs of people onto the roads and far from home. This created a time much like our own celebration. It cost a lot. It required much.
This most important event was proclaimed by angels, bringing shepherds to their knees. It was accompanied by magi showing up after a journey of many months. It brought the wrath of a vicious king and the slaughter of innocent children. This most significant birth brought death and the miraculous, foretastes of what was to come.
When we pare away the unnecessary and focus on Christ, our families, generosity in response to his generous giving of himself, and whatever words, insights, and truths the Lord impresses upon us, we come away recharged spiritually.
We come away in awe. We come away inspired.
When we focus on Christ, our families, generosity in response to his generous giving of himself, and whatever words, insights, and truths the Lord impresses upon us, we come away in awe. We come away inspired. Click To TweetYou may find yourself writing a different kind of content, words that flow from your heart in adoration of our Savior, rather than marketing, writing goals, and manuscripts. If so, lean into it. Go with the words the Lord impresses upon you. Allow yourself to be refreshed in this season.
In the frenzy of the season, you may find inspiration, as you contemplate the chaos of the young couple battling the crowds to get into Bethlehem – Mary in labor, finding no place to give birth but a barn, most probably a cave under the noisy inn. Imagine birthing, perhaps alone, painfully, and with no idea of what would happen next. Take time to feel the paralyzing terror of the shepherds as they’re floored by the angelic host proclaiming the glory of God. Experience the wonder of the magi as they make their way across the desert in search of a colossal prediction.
Consider those predictions, the prophecies, the first one given at the moment of humanity’s fall. Ponder the foretelling woven all through the Old Testament, culminating in the arrival of Christ, with more to be fulfilled at his return. The Advent season is all about his coming again, just as he came before.
What will this teach you? How will you be present in the moment to absorb the lesson the Lord has for you? For, he will indeed have a lesson, and it will be specifically for you.
Will you slow down? Will you pause in the moment when he impresses this truth upon you? Will you take the time to allow him to touch your heart? Will you look up and see Jesus there with hands outstretched, a gift especially for you?
Year by year, day by day, he wants us to experience even more of himself. What gift of himself does he have for you this year? Will you find it by seeking him with all your heart?
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I love this Melinda. Get rid of the extra at this time of year!! Focus on what the season really means. Figure out what God wants. Give it to Him with your whole heart.
It’s all part of the minimal Christmas, Brittany! We were clearly on the same page this year!
I love this! THIS, especially, got me: “You may find yourself writing a different kind of content, words that flow from your heart in adoration of our Savior, rather than marketing, writing goals, and manuscripts. If so, lean into it. Go with the words the Lord impresses upon you. Allow yourself to be refreshed in this season.”
This is exactly where I am right now. Thank you for a great post!
I’m glad it encouraged you and that you took the time to tell me! Praise Jesus for the words and adoration he inspires! God bless you, sister, as you write the words the Lord has for you this season.
Hi Melinda. Thank you for walking us through many aspects of this blessed story that we may easily overlook. And what a perfect response: “How will you be present in the moment to absorb the lesson the Lord has for you? For, he will indeed have a lesson, and it will be specifically for you.” God has already been reminding me of His presence over the past several weeks, and during this Christmas season, I’m sure He will show me more of how He is present in my life. Blessings to you during this time.
The fact that Jesus has specific blessings for each of us in this season is one of the best gifts, other than the fact of his own presence. The specifics are often surprising, but when we slow down to listen, to really hear him, his gifts and lessons bless us so deeply. God bless you, Stephen!
Thank you for the encouragement to focus on the reason for the season!
We can get so swept up into it that we miss the whole point – Jesus himself. Thanks for stopping by to comment, Julie!
Today, I will slow down and enjoy the preparations for Christmas. Thank you for this reminder. Merry Christmas!
It’s so easy for us to get swept up in the frenzy. God bless you and refresh as you slow down, Melissa.
This time of year is a challenge but filled with opportunities to do good. When I reflect on all my parents and grandparents did to make Christmas special for us, I want to do the same for my children and grandchildren. It’s wonderful to see my children making Christmas special for their child. But it doesn’t stop there. Melinda, you are so right when you say we must remember the true meaning of Christmas. Our house will be loaded with family this Christmas Eve. But in the middle of all our merrymaking, we plan to go to Christmas Eve service and celebrating the birth of our Saviour together before returning home and opening gifts, playing games, and sharing joy and laughter. May we never forget the true meaning of Christmas and may we pass that onto the next generation. Beautiful post.
God bless you as you build a Christ-centered holiday for your children and your grandchildren. Your holiday sounds like the holidays of my youth. I still cherish those times. It was the best way to grow up, with loving Christian grandparents who cherished us all. We do our best to model their Christlikeness. Thanks for commenting, Anneliese.
When I think of the travel of Mary and Joseph; the angels, the shepherds, and the magi, their lives were quite busy during this season. Not much different than our busy season. But their busyness was focused on the right thing – the coming of our Lord.
It’s not so much that busyness is the problem this time of the year, it’s often what we allow to take up our time – does it matter? Is it kingdom focused?
Your post is so spot on, Melinda. Keeping this time focused on Christ is the only thing that matters. As you said,
“To do so, step away from extra duties, activities, and appointments. Skip that party if you can. Avoid that loud event that will send you home with a headache and regrets. Maybe even dispense with Christmas cards. Minimize your shopping. Stop the craziness.
Focus on the reason — Jesus himself. Spend time with the Lord, concentrating on his Word and prayer. He is what our celebration is all about, and from him flows all else.”
Amen! 🙂
It was certainly a harried time for all of them, as it is for us. In our Advent reading today, the author pointed out that the religious leaders of Jesus’ day completely missed his coming. They merely provided the prophetic information about the birth of a king when Herod asked after the wisemen inquired, and then those religious leaders went about their own business. No one went along with the wisemen to see what had happened. No one rejoiced. They just went back to their lives. May we not ever be like that. No matter what requirements our lives place on us, may be continue to see Jesus, to seek for him with all our hearts, to recognize him in the ordinary, the mundane, and the busy. Thanks for your thoughtful comment, Marcie.
This Christmas will be a different one for my wife and I. It will be the first as a simple couple. We have decided to encourage our four adult children to focus on their families and the “in-law families” this year. And for Julie and I – well we are going to a restaurant as a couple, a first. This year it is time to slow down and reflect – slow down and rejoice
That’s a big step and shows a great degree of selflessness. Your children will enrich their relationships with their in-laws, and you will enrich your relationship with your wife, just the two of you. So much stress of the holiday preparation will be defused, and you’ll be able to have a greater focus on the spiritual nature of the holiday, rather than on the physical observances. Sounds like a great plan. God bless you, brother!
Hi Melinda. Your post hits the nail on the head, we need to slow down and focus on the right thing, Jesus. We need to be like Mary, sitting at the feet of Jesus, instead of being like Maratha.
Listening to his leading and meditating on his story is such a blessing! I agree, Yvonne!
I love this: “When we pare away the unnecessary and focus on Christ, our families, generosity in response to his generous giving of himself, and whatever words, insights, and truths the Lord impresses upon us, we come away recharged spiritually.
“We come away in awe. We come away inspired.”
It’s the challenge of the season. But God meets us where we have room in our hearts–the inn.
Yes! Making room for him is the essential! I like how you put that, Nancy. You do that so well! Thanks for stopping by!
OH man – do you ever make this sound good. I’d love to set aside the shopping… I kind of have, so far. ha! But the Christmas cards… oy, I’m in the thick of it now. I’ve tried to streamline it, but somehow it takes too much time still.
I just need to MAKE space. “Let every heart prepare him room” right?
Thanks Melinda!
Christina, I do understand! I loved doing it for years, but each year my kids grew, homeschooling became more demanding, and our schedule got fuller. I struggled along for years with the Christmas cards, and about twenty or twenty-five years in, I quit completely. My adult children were not on board with my usual newsy family letter anymore, and I realized I was in a new season. I switched to pretty Christmas cards, but the recipients complained about no newsletter, and I simply opted out. Respecting my adult and teen kids and freeing up time won the time crunch. I’m so glad that’s not on the to-do list anymore. ?