Fifty-some years after the Civil Rights Movement began, sadly, America still has continuing racism. White culture is pervasive, and those who aren’t white often experience prejudice, biased treatment, misunderstanding, and outright discrimination.
We who are white don’t fully comprehend our oddities, because we haven’t lived life outside our comfort zone. Until recently, perhaps we weren’t even aware that we have our own culture and measure everyone else by it. To us, it just seems normal, though there are all sorts of variations within white culture.
If you’re white or mostly white like me, everything might seem fine to you. Didn’t the Civil Rights movement and Affirmative Action fix all of this? No, unfortunately, it didn’t. It was merely the beginning of change.
Racists still exist. People of color are still treated badly. Racial slurs and killings still happen.
Most older white adults have no idea that many phrases and expressions we use – learned more than half a century ago – are offensive. Unfortunately, that includes our president. We think white culture is normative. We are often tone deaf. We don’t hear the backlash, and we should.
We who are white need to learn to listen, so we can feel empathy with others. I’ve proposed this solution before – the simple act of listening for the purpose of understanding. This is especially important in the church, where we’re all one in Christ. There’s a public conversation taking place right now because we’re not doing this well.
I’ll condense the discussion here.
Young well-educated theologians of color are pouring out of the best seminaries in the land armed with a solidly biblical worldview impacted by their educations. They’ve learned that our understanding of the Trinity itself came from the churches of northern African when Athanasius and Alexander reasoned with the council at Nicea. They know that God intends his church to be comprised of people from diverse cultures and that God loves diversity.
They know that the gospel isn’t merely the preaching of how to get saved, but of how that salvation will/should change us if we’re truly born again (sanctification). They know Christ promised to redeem people from the farthest reaches of the earth. They know that from the church’s infancy, salvation meant crossing racial and social lines to embrace our brothers and sisters in Christ.
They’ve pondered these multicultural formative facts of the church:
- Pentecost and cultural life all across the Roman Empire.
- Gentile Cornelius and Jewish Peter.
- Paul’s rebuke of Peter for his hypocrisy of avoiding Gentiles when Jewish believers were present as described in Galatians.
- Biblical teaching in Colossians, Ephesians, 1 Corinthians, Revelation, and Acts about the unity of the body of Christ. Believers from every possible ethnic and situational designation are unified.
- All believers are brothers and sisters, one in Christ, one family.
- Unity of his body – that we be one – was Jesus’ prayer in John 17.
- In all of our multiethnic splendor, we will gather before the throne to worship the Lamb.
The young theologians know how Jesus’ great commission mixed us all together by commanding the disciples to go from Jerusalem to Judea to Samaria and out into the world. Christianity is a faith in which the color of your skin should not be a barrier to warm and intimate fellowship with people of other hues. This they know.
And so, they seek, and we need, more unity in the church.
Segregation in America was the idea of white supremacists who badly twisted the Scriptures and acted in destructive, degraded, and sinful ways, all for financial gain and for maintaining their culture and comfort. Segregation is not a Christian principle. Yet Sunday morning is still the most segregated hour in our nation – this is evidence that we still have a problem. We all know it.
Segregation is not a Christian principle. Yet Sunday morning is still the most segregated hour in our nation - this is evidence that we still have a problem. We all know it. Click To TweetThis flood of godly young theologians, armed with PhDs and doctorates in all the right things, ran headlong into well-known older theologians, some who listened, comprehended all of this already, linked arms with them, and dialogued in warm and helpful ways.
But, the young theologians also encountered some well-known older theologians who had started well, working hard for racial equality in the 1960s, but who then left the fray, considering all to have been accomplished, thinking the outcome wasn’t gospel related, when in actuality it was. And is.
Well-known older theologians who had started well, working hard for racial equality in the 1960s, then left the fray, thinking the outcome wasn't gospel related, when in actuality it was. And is. Click To TweetThat’s a simplification of the situation. And I purposefully didn’t name names, because only Jesus’ opinion matters. We want to land on the side of his gospel.
So what’s the take away?
If you’re white, and you haven’t been paying attention, start now. Begin by evaluating how you feel when you hear about the latest killing, arrest, or harassment of a young black person, the percentage of people of color in our prisons, the condition of our inner-city schools, and the ongoing discrimination in the workplace and the university.
How do you feel when young African-American mothers you know express fear for their children, especially their sons, growing up in this country?
If you react by scoffing at the idea that discrimination still occurs, by not taking seriously what is being said, by believing that the speaker or writer must be wrong, or by thinking that the person discriminated against probably “deserved it,” I urge you to stop. Stop now. Immediately.
It’s not them. It’s us.
We who are white became tone deaf. We quit listening when we shouldn’t have. We don’t understand. This racial division will only change if we do the necessary work of trying to truly comprehend.
It's not them. It's us. We who are white became tone deaf. We quit listening when we shouldn't have. We don't understand. This racial division will only change if we do the necessary work of trying to truly comprehend. Click To TweetStart by listening. Start by reading the Word and exposition of it. Allow the Lord to soften your heart, to change the way you think, to poke at the places where you have flawed assumptions, and to question your emotions and your viewpoints – the places where you are afraid.
Let God do the work. Let him change your heart.
Read here: Don’t Hide Behind the Gospel by Barnabas Piper.
Read here: Black Women Don’t Cry by Jasmine Holmes.
Watch and listen here:
Amen, Melinda. This…”Segregation is not a Christian principle. Yet Sunday morning is still the most segregated hour in our nation – this is evidence that we still have a problem. We all know it.” Such a needed message. Thank you for sharing it and saying it out loud.
Thanks for the feedback, Karen. Every time we step out into this space to write about this topic, the enemy sends thoughts of all the possible pushback, trying to keep us silent. Nevertheless, I wrote. I know the Lord wants this to be said. Jesus prayed for unity in his church. May his will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
So true and timely. Love your neighbor as yourself is God’s command to not be a racist. Jesus’ parable of the Good Samaritan reinforces that everyone we see everyday is our neighbor and we are called to love them all.
Yes! Truth, sister! It’s literally all over God’s Word. It’s impossible to miss if our eyes are open and our hearts are teachable!
I’m thankful to go to a church where we have people of many different ethnicities! It is so true – on both sides, I truly believe – that racism still exists today. Yes, if we begin to listen to each other, only then will we truly get to know each other and begin to rid the world of such hate.
Emily, thanks for commenting! To us, this issue is so important that when we moved across country in January, we spied out church websites to see if we could detect if churches we were considering were welcoming to people of color. If we saw a sea of white faces in this very diverse city in which we live, we didn’t bother visiting. For the ones we did visit, we looked around for the kind of diversity that exists in our city. The church we found has that mix and it’s an extremely good fit for us in many other ways, too! As believers, we don’t receive the full benefit of being a member of the diverse, multicultural body of Christ when we only worship with people who are exactly like us. Others bring a perspective we need desperately! From them, we learn so much about the fullness of Christ in us!
Listen before speaking. Everyone has their own unique life story. Do not judge. Listen and we may learn.
Truth! So important to remember!
Wow! A lot to take in there. Could not agree more about the importance of listening. Am very grateful that the church I attend is quite diverse, and there is so much that can be learned by all of us when we take the time to form real relationships. Thanks Melinda.
Thanks so much for commenting, Scott! The discussions have been theologically rich this past year. That’s for sure! If you’re interested in more on this, you can find online seminars that were presented this year by The Gospel Coalition, the Southern Baptist seminary, and several other groups. Christianity Today has also been following the conversation and reporting on it. And, believe it or not, a lot of this discussion occurs live via Twitter. Many young theologians regularly converse there about these topics. It’s exciting to see the Holy Spirit working in the hearts of church leaders all over the country to move racial reconciliation forward in our churches. And in all of our personal lives, the Holy Spirit empowers us to listen to one another and to love our neighbors as ourselves.
This is so necessary, thank you for writing this. Everyone either wants to look away quickly or speak loud quickly- but think how much would be accomplished if we first listened!!
This is the key to rational discussion and to allowing the Holy Spirit to do his work. Quick to listen. Slow to speak. The more I listen, the more I realize I still don’t understand. And so, I continue to listen, to ask questions, and to listen some more. The perspectives in the two articles with links at the end are very worth reading to gain even more understanding about this.
Yes Melinda ?????? It starts with individuals willing to take the time to really listen past the loud ignorance to what’s really being said. We like to point out the extremists as a reason that what they are saying is incorrect, but the reality is behind every loud extremist is a quieter truth, a set of people just like me who have tons of stories they can tell of realities not hypotheticals – a life that most who are not the “minority” have never experienced and cannot even imagine.
Thank you for commenting, Brittany! I’m so glad to have your input. The value of listening is that we get to hear the true facts from every person of color we are privileged to know. Hearing your truth opens our eyes to reality. When we not only listen to those we know, but also read the stories of others (like the one I linked to by Jasmine Holmes at the post’s bottom and some of the things I’ve read by you and many others) we can compound our knowledge and grow in wisdom. But we who are white must be humble enough to recognize that we don’t know, that we’re wrong in our assumptions. That’s why I broadcast this message periodically, each time the Lord prods me, and this discussion in the church right now is one such time. There needs to be far, far more listening right now. I pray the Lord does the necessary work in our hearts, so that we will humble ourselves and open our ears. Please pray for us, sister.
This is beautiful, well thought out, and moving. I love this–
We who are white need to learn to listen, so we can feel empathy with others. I’ve proposed this solution before – the simple act of listening for the purpose of understanding.
–yes. If we as the American church can stop, listen, and really work to understand before speaking. Thank you for delving into such a sensitive but necessary subject.
This is the challenge before us! Thank you for your thoughtful comment, Stephanie!
I live in a largely white community. People are prone to misunderstand those who are different from ourselves.
Interaction is key, and the best place for interaction is inside the church. Even if some of us have different worship traditions (and this form of discrimination is often not related to race) we can still do ministry together.
So people of different denominations and races (there is only one race, the human race) can join hands and reach out in understanding to our communities.
And in that way, we can overcome racism and make our ministry more effective.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Nancy. Listening to one another allows us to join hands and to do this together. Otherwise both sides are often prone to misunderstand and to judge one another. And since we all are one race – the human race, we can hope and pray for the Lord to bring this kind of harmony, which he will do, one day.
Melinda, this is an excellent post! Well thought out! I loved how you applied the scriptures to this challenge in our culture. You point out that white supremists twisted the scriptures. I would agree, and this shows the importance of evaluating and interpreting the Bible accurately with humility. The long term effects of misinterpreting scripture is awful. Thank you for this post! Bold and beautiful!
Marcie, thank you for your kind words! I was able to attend one of the conferences on racial reconciliation held this past year via teleconference – the one I watched was held by The Gospel Coalition. It was very eye opening, and I learned so much! Since then I’ve been reading and keeping up on these discussions. Periodically, I write on this whenever the Lord leads. And this current issue could bring a serious divide in the church unless we all ground ourselves in the Scriptures – like you said. What the Lord says it’s what most important. I so agree with you!