Pandemic 2020.
From day to day we don’t know what to expect. Officials tell us to do this. The next day they tell us to do that, thus fragmenting the nation. Other countries have found success with tried and true methods, and yet many of us don’t seem to understand the science, selflessness, and simplicity of wearing a mask. As a result, our nation’s number of cases has climbed to one-third of all the cases of COVID19 in the entire world.
Half a year ago, the idea that any of these things would be our daily concern would have been ludicrous and unimaginable, not even on the radar.
However, through these events, God is calling us to a steady stream of adaptation and change. We’re living through a season that will impact all of our tomorrows. Life as we know it has been turned upside down. God is rearranging everything and drawing us into deeper intimacy with him.
God is calling us to a steady stream of adaptation and change. Life as we know it has been turned upside down. God is rearranging everything and drawing us into deeper intimacy with him. Click To Tweet“But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ—the righteousness that comes from God on the basis of faith” (Philippians 3:7-9 NIV).
Consider Paul and the apostles and the lives they lived, constantly traveling through dangerous regions, moving from one tribe or culture to another. There was no daily norm. They traversed on foot, staying in the homes of others, suffering persecution as they went, often ending up in prison. All of this was done out of the love for Jesus, seeking to take his message of salvation to everyone they could reach. They modeled for us a healthy dose of change fully embraced because of their love for Christ.

Since God is orchestrating this, will we likewise seize this opportunity for change, for growth, for transformation, and for putting others first?
In a letter written from prison, Paul writes how to live a life of constant upheaval, a life of continual adaptation, a life where people in close quarters rub shoulders, have conflicts, and learn selflessness.
“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity” (Colossians 3:12-14 NIV).
This is how relationships are to function when Christ rules in our lives and we are living for him. We open our eyes, roll out of bed, and put on these qualities, as if putting on our clothing. We wear compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, no matter our inner turmoil. We don’t allow our emotions to destroy our gentleness toward others. We forgive, forgive, and forgive again, an essential in close quarters.
The phrase “clothe yourselves with compassion” in the original language means to be clothed with bowels of compassion, to feel love for the other in our guts, to be compelled by pity for the suffering of others, to be motivated by mercy and kindness. That is what we are to put on, to wear, to wrap ourselves in from the moment our eyes open and our feet hit the floor daily.
Gentleness and patience are not hallmarks of American society. We don’t treat others with tenderness. We don’t demonstrate self-restraint and longsuffering with regard to the inconveniences we experience in human relationships, and yet this is Christianity. These require constant reliance upon Christ. They’re not natural for us, but they are for him.
We also don’t often forgive well. We bring the past up over and over again. We browbeat. We want the other to apologize first, and then, maybe, we’ll step up. Because this is human nature, the Holy Spirit inspired Paul to write “forgive” three times here. That means it’s really important. We can’t do all the other parts of these instructions if we bear a grudge, if we won’t forgive.

“Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Period. No loopholes. How did he forgive? He forgave graciously, willingly, and completely, totally saturated in love for us. “God is love” (1 John 4:8b). And so, to forgive, to put on these qualities so essential for peaceful human coexistence, we must “put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” This is a command.
"Forgive as the Lord forgave you." Period. No loopholes. How did he forgive? He forgave graciously, willingly, and completely, totally saturated in love for us. "God is love." Click To TweetJesus is our model. He’s the only one who lived this perfectly, and because he did, we’re able to be forgiven, accepted by God, and inhabited by his Holy Spirit. Therefore, with his help and empowerment, we can grow in selflessness. Will we?
“In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross!” (Philippians 2:5-8 NIV).
Do we do this? Do we seek our own advantage or the advantage of others? Do we serve others, or are we looking to be served? Do we humble ourselves, or do we feel we’re better than those around us? Do we evaluate every bit of news about this virus and consider how we can best protect and help others?
#Coronavirus #HelpingOthers: Do we humble ourselves, or do we feel we're better than those around us? Do we evaluate the news about this virus and consider how we can best protect and help others? Click To TweetThat means carefully opening up our country by painstakingly following the CDC’s safety guidelines, so that the predicted 19-20% unemployment rate can be avoided, allowing people to feed their families and to pay their bills in order to avoid economic ruin and disaster.
That means putting on a mask when we go out into groups, because we never know if we’re asymptomatic — infected with the virus, contagious, and yet demonstrating no signs. According to early stats, at least a million of us may be walking around in that state with no idea that we carry the virus.
That means being super cautious with the elderly, the sick, and the young, washing our hands carefully, avoiding personal contact with those in weakened health, or with underlying or chronically ill conditions.
That means stepping into every single one of these necessities simultaneously, creating a vastly different world than we have had in the past, as we move through these COVID19 cycles that may take several years.
Will we yield, not thinking we should get to do whatever we want? Will we show gentleness and patience when we’re irritated or opposed? Will we use kind tones and words? Will we bear with one another, rather than shoving the other away or pushing back with raised voices and harsh words? Can we embrace all of this change and sacrifice out of love for Christ?

There’s only one way to go about learning this lesson in selflessness. We must apply the medicine of God’s Word to our hearts and minds daily, a dose that softens our hearts and transforms our lives. This requires us to slow down, to meditate on what God has said, to evaluate our own application of it, to repent, and to turn again to him when we see the many places where we’ve failed.
There's only one way to go about learning selflessness. We must apply the medicine of God's Word to our hearts and minds daily, a dose that softens our hearts and transforms our lives. #HelpingOthers Click To Tweet“Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him” (Colossians 3:15-17 NIV).
By the grace of God and with his help, we can be transformed. This virus and all of the changes in our lives can be used by him to teach us selflessness, to propel us into a lifestyle that more closely models the sacrifices of the Savior. Or, we can become hardened and selfish, guarding our rights and neglecting the rights and needs of others.
What will we do? How will we respond to the Holy Spirit’s urging?
Thanks Melinda for shining God’s light on this difficult time. I pray for our leaders to have the wisdom of Christ to make the right decisions for each area of the country.
It’s a complicated time when we have to balance the ability of people to make enough money to feed their families while still maintaining a safe environment during a pandemic. Our leaders need prayer! I so agree, Yvonne!
Melinda, this scripture filled article was nourishment for my mind and heart! I really appreciated how you pointed out all of the needs of our nation – the young and old, the parents who need to work to put food on the table for their children, the elderly, those with health needs who need extra consideration and protection against added illness. Each person’s need is real. And serious. There are many different needs to balance and remember. Lord Jesus, gives us eyes to see one another’s need and hearts to love, forgive and help.
Thank you, Melissa! You’re so gracious and kind. The Lord’s call to love and to seek to respond selflessly is so important right now. This is how we are good neighbors, who demonstrate unconditional love, loving as we want to be loved. Lives depend upon our response. This call to care for all of these needs safely and simultaneously is a challenge that will keep us on our knees. This turmoil is changing all of us, revealing our blind spots, impelling us to grow, and helping us to model the love we see in the parable of the sheep and the goats, our essential end times response!
Thank you for this, Melinda. You shared a perspective of this pandemic that is so necessary for Christians to understand. And I appreciate the Scripture passages you chose. How relevant they are. Living for the sake of others is the example Christ gave, and forgiveness is surely applicable in many of our situations. We take offense from actions and words that are both intentionally offensive and simply perceived offensive though not intended.
Stephen, good points! We’re so challenged in these matters of discernment that we must rely on Christ to form our viewpoints and to propel our actions. Some make fun of people who wear masks, for instance, or who are for opening up the economy so that working families can survive, and yet, we’re called to be selfless and concerned for the welfare of others. Jesus’ opinion of us is the only one that matters, and keeping a clean conscience regarding our actions and choices is essential.
Applying the medicine of scripture is our call to action. Thanks for putting all of this scripture and commentary together, Melinda!
Nancy, thank you! That’s what we attempt to do. It requires study of the Scriptures, prayer, and much reflection to dig out the call to action and then how we are to apply it.
I pray we will follow on all nudges from God to show compassion and love to others.
Amen, Melissa! That will look unique for each of us in detail and in practice. We need to be aware of our hearts and minds, making sure that we’re listening to and acting on those nudges.
Love it, Melinda. Your theme of selflessness mirrors my current blog post on humility. Great minds…. 🙂
“This is how relationships are to function when Christ rules in our lives and we are living for him. We open our eyes, roll out of bed, and put on these qualities, as if putting on our clothing. We wear compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, no matter our inner turmoil.” Yes! There’s a make-over show from the past, “What Not to Wear.” So I once spoke about Colossians 3 and what we are to put off and put on…a spiritual makeover in Christ. And we all need one!
We’re constantly in need of this daily makeover, for our sinful natures and selfishness cause us to forget from day to day exactly how important compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience are in our lives. We can forget to put others first, to forget compassion, to forego kindness, to wear pride rather than humility, to respond with harshness rather than gentleness, and to be impatient rather than its opposite. Thank God for the conviction and the empowerment of his Holy Spirit within us. He is the One who transforms us! I do remember that show, Karen. “What Not to Wear” should be a daily spiritual consideration as we put on what we ARE to wear!
I love what you said about the softening of our hearts. That is key!
God’s Word as the necessary medicine is needed every single day, otherwise our hearts are hard, and the rest of these instructions are impossible. We need his Word to make our hearts pliable and tender. So important! Thanks for commenting, Jessica.
Sadly I have had the unfortunate experience of a church leader use his emotional stress to speak harshly to me. Not fun. I so wanted to retaliate! But I chose to be quite. I chose to understand that his angst and frustration was talking. He’s human. While the words hurt, and I was angry. I’m now faced with the choice to forgive or be bitter. I’m choosing to forgive. Thank you for your encouraging article!
Forgiveness is so difficult when the injustice has been large, Marcie! I’m so sorry you experienced this humiliation, but so glad you didn’t retaliate and that you sought to understand him instead. Bitterness only hurts us, not the other. It’s like a hand grenade with the pin already pulled. We definitely don’t want to hold onto it! Thank you for sharing this to encourage others.
I recently heard an interview by Eric Metaxas (who is a historical writer), and he said prior to the 1960s, Americans had a common cultural value that stemmed in the Christian worldview. Since then, sadly, that common cultural value has splintered, causing a lot of the problems of division we see today. So many people do not understand the value of loving our neighbors; they may not even realize where that moral value comes from as many people aren’t reading the Bible. This is why what you do as a Christian writer is so vital! The things you’ve written in this blog are an excellent education in Christian virtues.
Lisa, thank you for your very kind words. One advantage of being an old lady is that I lived through the sixties and saw what that decade did to the values of our nation. Growing up, I saw my grandparents’ and great-grandparents’ world of decency and looking out for others disintegrate as fewer people attended church and churches often let down their people, we now know. And, because of the racism our country never seems to be able to shake, the church also failed in that terribly, and even more people were let down. Is it any wonder that self was then placed first by so many hurt and disappointed people? It seemed there was no one to look out for others, and so people “did their own thing.”
The sixties happened because of the injustices that went before. Had God’s Word been applied to these situations, we would not be here.
Next, of course, respect for one another fell apart. Course language became a norm. Gentleness left the public square as self continued its victory march. That all led to abortion for any and all reasons, and now we have infanticide and euthanasia, and we STILL have racial violence and discrimination.
I write facing this storm, writing from the Lord’s Word, seeking to teach and to promote Christian values, to write what is right, to do my small part in turning this around. I write my own journey of seeking to live for the Lord and to love Jesus with all my heart. I hope and pray my words have an impact.
More of God and less of me! Great points Melinda and so relevant!
Thanks for commenting, Ava! Yes, yes, yes! More of God. Less of me always. God bless you, sister.
Amen, amen. I pray we all open and allow God to soften our hearts so we can LOVE OTHERS well and fully in His name!
Love and harmony are so essential right now. We hope and pray that the Lord can use us and give us sacrificial love that only he can provide in every circumstance. Thanks for commenting, Jessica.
God has been steadily humbling me and teaching me to speak less and listen more. Beautifully written as always, my friend.
Thank you, Candice! Right now, we have a lot to issues to speak less about and to listen more. Selflessness is in order, and I hope and pray for the Lord to guide me toward a better living out of that myself. God bless you, sister!
Well Said…Full of Practical Wisdom to walk out God’s Spiritual Truths!
Thank you, Janine! We grow in grace and selflessness with the empowerment of God’s Word and his precious Holy Spirit.