The decoding of the human genome and, as a result, the development of DNA tests provide answers to those most basic of questions: Who am I? From whence did I come?
Our families have defined us, passing on their genes, telling us who we are, communicating stories, shaping and modeling life as they, and those who’ve gone before them, believe it should be lived. We follow in their footsteps, whether or not we know exactly who made those footsteps and where they were taken. We absorbed their mannerisms, their habits, and their ways of interacting. We look like them. We repeat their stories.
Recently in our multi-generational family, some of the adults near forty decided to investigate our heritage. Their DNA test results have now motivated older generations to participate. We’re all queued up to be analyzed. Why?
We are a people for whom heritage and story are vastly important. We refer to family stories often. We are motivated and inspired by those who’ve gone before us, even writing about them, so the story of our origins is known.
In bringing in DNA, we’ve now encountered some of the predictable surprises. Some of these have absolutely delighted us. Some have made us laugh as those facts explain everything. Some have puzzled us. As more of us get tested, all will become clear. For now, I’m focusing on the delightful.
Back in the days before personal computers, my brilliant philosopher-poet-scientist Grandpa Viergever spent years researching genealogy. His work was painstaking. When I was in my late teens and early twenties, I enjoyed hearing his findings.
We Viergevers are of “Black Dutch” descent. In short, many people have traversed to and from the Netherlands. Being a tolerant people, the Dutch often intermarried, plus they are a seafaring people, interconnected with Scandinavia, including the Vikings. So anything was possible. Our DNA shows connections all across northeastern Europe.
In our family, there was a scandal in 1880. My grandfather’s father, a swarthy young man of “Black Dutch” heritage, wanted to marry a blue-eyed blond Dutch girl of “pure” heritage. They all attended church together in western Michigan after their parents had emigrated from Holland.
Her family objected, because he was “Black Dutch,” and they knew what kind of “black,” for they had all emigrated from their joint familial birthplace. But she loved him, so the young couple staged a “kidnapping,” and they eloped, married, and produced eleven children.
Hurrah for love triumphant over blind prejudice! I state this with great pride. Yes, Lord willing, there’s a novel coming in the future. They’ve given me plenty of fodder for fiction.

Right in the middle of this multi-generational photo, the tall, aged, and fierce couple are my great-grandparents who eloped.
So, their youngest son, my Grandpa Viergever (wearing the hat as he stands barely visible behind his 6′ 8″ father) was keen on discovering from whence came the “black” in the “Black Dutch.” Why was it objectionable to some, but not to others? His arduous research led him to two possibilities – “Moorish” ancestry or Jewish ancestry. He was convinced of the Arab connection and labeled himself “Dutch-Arab” from that point onward.
But there was no way to know then. Now there is.

The route of possible Jewish ancestors fleeing from Portugal (Iberian peninsula) to the Netherlands.

Zealand, the homeland in the Netherlands from which my Viergever ancestors emigrated.
However, our first family DNA tests look as if a Jewish heritage through the Iberian peninsula, rather than an Arab heritage, might be the reason for the controversy. All of a sudden past prejudice is explained. All of a sudden we may be genetically woven into this most significant, blessed, and persecuted of families. All of a sudden we may be blood relatives of Jesus twice over.
We’re delighted! Tingly happy! Ecstatic even!
This is why even the great-grandparents are queueing up to take the test. Our oldest living generation, my parents, just ordered their tests. The more generations we can include, the more clear and certain become the surprising results.
However, none of this is a surprise to God. In fact, he carefully wove together the tapestry of our family tree across all generations and continents, through every event that relocated and scattered ancient peoples (even the Inquisition in this case). Whatever the calamity, heartache, loss, or reward, God knew our days all along.
God knew me specifically all along, too. Me, their genetic product. Beforehand, he knew my children and grandchildren, too, every one. He knew what our DNA contained and the people it came from, for he knitted it together.
Exactly as he knows you just as intricately.
He orchestrated our life circumstances to put us here, where we are, at this place, with us being who we are, with the gifts, talents, foibles, appearance, intellect, weaknesses, and tendencies toward disease that we have.
We are exactly who we are supposed to be. There are no mistakes or blunders or mysterious unknown facts. It is all glorious and delightful, crafted by God. We are his handiwork, his poemia, all of us, his artistic masterpiece.
Thanks be to God for it!
What amazes you about what has God wrought in your family?
Over the years, I continue to be amazed that our family has been formed through many unique people. Many stories and many backgrounds. What a blessing!
It’s so intriguing to see the story God has woven, isn’t it! I do agree!
I love reading about my heritage too. Our lives form beautiful stories. Thanks for reminding us.
It’s delightful to look back at what he has done! I agree!
That all must be so exciting for you! Definitely a novel in the making too! Our stories are important to us, and God put us exactly where we are to be for His bigger purpose. Sometimes that can be hard to grasp especially in the brokenness but His love and grace is always there for us to receive to be His masterpiece as you remind us!
Lynn, thank you for sharing my excitement! God’s story in our lives is enthralling!
You write about the most interesting things. It seems popular to discover our ancestry’s DNA these days. Your family’s sounds so intriguing to say the least. I’ve never tried and only know a little of my family’s genealogy.
You’re so kind, Karen! Thank you! I grew up in a storytelling family on both sides, which was a great blessing! It’s been a gift from God for writing – that’s for sure!
I loved reading about your family! I have not done the research, but I have heard stories passed down in my family that I am from a Jewish descent. My grandfather, who I don’t know because he died in WWII was adopted and his biological mother was Jewish. Since I love the Jewish people, I am elated that somehow I’m connected to them. But the truth of the matter is, even though we are all different, we are also very much the same. Woven together with different colors, backgrounds, gifts, talents, tempermants, but one in purpose to bring God glory with our lives. It’s truly a beautiful picture. 🙂
God’s story in our own individual lives and in the intricacies of our family trees inspires me as a novelist! Thank you for sharing that part of your story and your thoughts on God’s good and perfect work in and through our families. I so agree! Shalom!
Hi Melinda! Wow – how cool is this DNA testing thing? I’ve been tempted to do this myself, and your post has encouraged me to pursue our own family testing. Where that may lead should be fascinating! How did you find a reliable testing company, and was it very expensive?
On another note, as a Christian Apologist, the very fact that the DNA chain is so complicated is a great apologetic (defense) for the existence of God! The DNA is so amazingly complex that scientists are scratching their heads trying to figure out how this “evolved” since it appears designed! Ha! God is definitely in the mix of His creation!
Yeah, they’re puzzled about a lot of things! It’s like when they say, “the universe knew…,” thus personifying the universe (and making it God). In our hearts all of us know there is a God.
The tests vary in cost, depending on what you want from each, because you can choose to receive medical information about diseases that run in your family. 23andMe, Ancestry(dot)com, and National Geographic are the only ones I know of – we used the first two. But I’m guessing there are more options.
Great! Thanks for the DNA links, Melinda. I will definitely check it out.
And yeah, I really abhor when folks say stuff like “the universe must like me.” Oy vey…
Amen to that!
So glad we have the means to check out our ancestry today! Those who came before us helped make us who we are. Great post!
Thanks, Nancy! ?
I love this Melinda. No matter who we are, we have an identity in Christ. I must remember this as I raise my son who lost his biological mother, and we have no idea of who his biological father is. So many of life’s woes can be solved when we just remember who we really are…in Christ.
So true, Brittany! He created us and he made us his own. We are his, first and foremost!
Such an interesting story! It is incredible how we craft our histories, and yet, there is so much we don’t know. DNA testing gives a window into some of our stories and the information discovered can be both revealing and life-changing. Thanks for sharing. It will be interesting what the rest of the family’s testing reveals!
We’re all looking forward to those test results returning! That’s for sure! Thank you for commenting! ?