The past six months have brought a whirlwind of change and physical trauma. I don’t know how I’ve gotten through it, but for the grace of God. In the days when I can’t even focus my mind to pray, the Lord has held me together. When I feel incredibly alone and unsure of my purpose, the reality of who God is keeps me going. He sees me, even though discouragement pulls hard at me.
Since November, I’ve felt the frenzy of chaos, upheaval, and uprootedness. At that time, two years before retirement, my husband received a necessary promotion that moved us clear across the country and out of our home of seventeen years.
This time has brought an emergency room visit and a triple surgery in a new city. I now navigate a metropolis of seven million people to find and visit nine different specialists for my autoimmune disease. All have performed and ordered new procedures in new hospitals, making me into an anxious guinea pig. My husband now starts work before dawn and ends usually at bedtime. Constant upheaval stirs within our own large family scattered all over the nation, and crises flare in the lives of parents and siblings.
I rarely allow myself to even think that I can’t take anymore, because I know from experience that “more” is usually right around the corner. God help us!
I’ve been studying Isaiah through all of this, finding myself exactly like the Jewish nation as Isaiah buffets them repeatedly with words of rebuke over how little of their faith actually shows in their actions. They have emergency backup plans, rather than solid reliance upon God’s faithfulness. They have careless and foolhardy boldness at times when they should wait on the Lord. God tries them, and they are found wanting.
That is me.
With a head full of theology, I should feel tranquil when even more is added to this current pile. Rather, I feel the whirlwind of overwhelm and the panic of anxiety.
I’m not much of a Christian.
But then, who is? We all must be repeatedly brought to this place where we know in our bones that it isn’t about our good theology or our calm in the battle. No, it’s about Jesus. He alone is our Rock. He alone will orchestrate our lives and bring us through. He alone will hold us together.
I know this. I know that God brings, superintends, and orchestrates these trials for my good. He has proven it. My emotions quake, but I know.
The same God who wrote, “Comfort ye my people!” and who predicted and promised rescue, salvation, and victory first told his people, “Hear the word of the LORD of hosts: Behold, the days are coming, when all that is in your house, and that which your fathers have stored up till this day, shall be carried to Babylon. Nothing shall be left, says the LORD” (Isaiah 39:5b-6 ESV).
Off they will go, brought into captivity in Babylon. God repeatedly promises recompense upon those who harm them. He repeats words of comfort to them, urging them not to fear, even in this. But still, they must go. It is written.
Why? Why do these things happen? Why?
Believe it or not, it’s for our good. It’s good for me when the Lord allows me to come to the end of myself. It teaches us, his people, the same lessons he was teaching Israel. He wants us to know how desperately we need him, that he alone is God, and that he alone can rescue us. He wants us to learn to trust him, rather than to fear.
“‘You are my witnesses,’ declares the LORD, ‘And my servant whom I have chosen, so that you may know and believe me and understand that I am he. Before me there was no god formed, nor shall there be any after me. I, I am the LORD, and there is no savior besides me‘ (Isaiah 43:10-11 NASB, italics are mine).
If there’s only one Savior, it’s pretty important that we know. To know that we can’t save ourselves is essential information. If life was without struggle, we wouldn’t seek the saving we need. We would complacently coast through life, lazy and content. But we need saving, and Jesus is the one who does it. Thus, we turn and turn again to him.
In chaos, frenzy, unexpected tragedy or blessing, change, and terror, he is with us. He wants us to know, believe, and understand this, because he loves us. This is why we face times like this, why we all face these kinds of trials.
All of this comes from love. All of it.
Yes, in good times and in stressful times, He is always with us. What a comfort to know we can share time with Him.
Thanks for commenting, Melissa!
Beautifully written, Melinda! I can so relate to this. The last 9 months of my life have been an upheaval as well. But when my faith starts to falter, God is always there.
The wonderful blessing of Christ with us! Thanks for stopping by, Heather!
Hi Melinda. First off, I am sorry for your trials. I know that God uses all things for good in the end, but during the midst of our suffering, it’s just hard. Yet, this statement you wrote is key: “We all must be repeatedly brought to this place where we know in our bones that it isn’t about our good theology or our calm in the battle. No, it’s about Jesus.” Amen.
It is so true that we all go through trials and sufferings and in the end, it’s our choice as to how we respond to them. Are we going to get “bitter”, or will we allow God to make us “better”? That’s our choice, and hopefully, we choose to allow God to place us on that Potter’s wheel and mold our souls to that of Christ-likeness. Even Jesus had to suffer and learned from it. (That just blows my mind!) So yeah… let’s choose to allow the Master Potter a place at the wheel. Great post – thank you! Lisa Q
Thanks for the encouraging comment, Lisa! The constant turning to the Lord in all our trials is the essence of growth. Praise God that he’s with us on the journey, drawing ever back to him and encouraging us along the way!
“I know this. I know that God brings, superintends, and orchestrates these trials for my good. He has proven it. My emotions quake, but I know.”
We know, but the reminders of its truth are so necessary. Thanks for reminding us. God bless!
Thanks, Nancy! I write to remind myself, and since I know others are in the same place, I write to remind others, too. We need these reminders! I so agree!
Great post, Melissa. Certainly we can all relate to being caught in that “place,” but it’s reassuring to remember that the Lord is always with us and will deliver us again to the mountaintop. Prayers for you, sweet sister.
Thank you for commenting, Karen! I appreciate the kind words and the prayers! ?
Beautiful post, Melinda. You spoke to my heart. With autoimmune, I’m at the end of myself more so than not. You are correct. God is right there with us. Even when we can’t remember what day it is or we can’t form a coherent sentence. Even then, he is with us. Thank you for sharing, dear friend.
Thank you, Gail! Fellow autoimmune sufferers “get it” when so many don’t. I appreciate the camaraderie and the encouragement! God bless you, dear sister!
I’m not much of a Christian…interesting thought.
Here’s another thought, if “many are called but few are chosen” what separates His from the hurd?
A rich man has lots of friends but he always questions why. Do they hang around for me or my money?
Your post speaks from a position of relationship. Yes, it is hard but how else will the best of you come to the surface? How else can you prove “I don’t want you for your money”.
It’s easy to put a hat on but difficult to earn the right to wear it.
Heart felt post Melinda.
Great analogy! I definitely don’t love the Lord for his “money”! ? Thanks, Tony!
What a humbling post. Isaiah is one of my favorite books for this exact reason. Sometimes it’s so hard to recognize the blessings when we’re going through tough times, but the Lord’s plan ALWAYS prevails! Thanks for this sweet reminder.
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Thanks for stopping by to comment, Sydney! Isaiah is glorious for the truth it contains! Such a blessing!
It’s funny how we really can have a head full of Bible knowledge, but we have to truly learn what it means to apply it & cling to it in the toughest seasons of our lives! It’s an on-going process of growth. Thanks so much for writing this!
That’s so true, Elizabeth! We know it, but until we live it, it’s not truly ours.
True, I believe that God is in control. He will always lead us THROUGH the valley of the shadow of death and we will emerge more beautiful than ever, having been purified by fire.
Sometimes the purifying of the hot fire isn’t a whole lot of fun! ? Thanks for commenting, Milton!
Dear Melinda.
Happy to be on your blog this quiet Saturday afternoon. The grace of God can lead us through much that we couldn’t face without the Faith, right?
I’ve also moved a lot during my time, and it’s always stressful. It must have been something of a change to leave your former home for seventeen years.
Melinda, I’m touched by the story of your family. When I’m reading all of this, I’m thinking of all that I see you’re contributing with to the Christian online community. You know, people seldom say to someone if they’ve done an excellent job, but we are always ready if something isn’t working. I think what you’re doing here on your blog, and on Twitter/Facebook etc. is gold. I’m sure it means a lot to a lot of people.
When you share with this honesty about what’s going on in your life, you set an example for people to follow. It’s inspiring to see how you deal with life.
This was my favourite part of this blog post:
“I’m not much of a Christian.
But then, who is? We all must be repeatedly brought to this place where we know in our bones that it isn’t about our good theology or our calm in the battle. No, it’s about Jesus.”
Because to me, this represents a perspective on life and Christianity, which makes me wanna wake up 6 o’clock 6 days a week to do what I do. None of this is about us; it’s all about Jesus and the gospel, loved it.
God’s love and the love we’re allowed to show to other people through Him is what makes life worth living.
I shared on Twitter because this is worth sharing!
God bless!
Edna
That’s encouraging, Edna! In the middle of my sharing, I sometimes don’t know if I’m encouraging others, and when I hear that my words touched a heart or uplifted a reader, it also encourages me. God uses it all for good, not just in my life, but in the body of Christ at large. That keeps me going! Praise God!