A short series on Romans 8 – 11. Part 2.
The Lord’s passion for us is what makes him a Lion who is not at all tame. God’s love is bloody, messy, and painful. It involves inserting himself into human flesh via conception, to be pushed out through a birth canal, to live with us, to die with us, and to rise so that we can be with him forever.
God’s love produced guidelines, promises, and pledges made by the highest Judge in the universe, the One whose rulings can never be overturned. When he tells us that he will do something, he does it. The promises of God are graciously and freely given. They are not negotiated.
God stepped into our chaos and made a legal, never-to-be-broken promise, opening wide the door and inviting all of us to enter into his family for all eternity, no matter our lineage and nationality, both Jew and non-Jew:
“6 But it is not as though the word of God has failed. For not all who are descended from Israel belong to Israel, 7 and not all are children of Abraham because they are his offspring, but “Through Isaac shall your offspring be named.” 8 This means that it is not the children of the flesh who are the children of God, but the children of the promise are counted as offspring. 9 For this is what the promise said, ‘About this time next year I will return, and Sarah shall have a son‘” (Romans 9:6-9 ESV).

Abraham’s son Ishmael and his descendants were not the children of the promise, but of the flesh. Ishmael was born to Hagar, but God had promised a son through Sarah. That son was Isaac, whose birth required faith. Isaac was the child of God’s promise.
Abraham had thought that another woman would do, but God miraculously brought forth Isaac from Sarah’s barren womb. Isaac’s descendents through his son Jacob, who was later named Israel, became the Jewish nation, God the Son’s family.
Not only did God choose Sarah, but Jesus’ lineage listed in The Gospel of Matthew includes the names of four women also particularly named as part of his lineage: Tamar, Rahab, Ruth, and the wife of Uriah, Bathsheba.
This is a messy family lineage, one to which we can relate. Tamar was cheated of her rights and so disguised herself as a cult prostitute in order to trick Judah and receive what was rightly hers. Rahab was a Canaanite innkeeper who wanted to meet the God of the Jews. She did everything she could to keep her entire extended family fed and safe. Ruth was a foreigner from Moab, with whom Jews were to have no dealings, yet she became the great-grandmother of David. Bathsheba, who was most probably coerced (or worse) by David on that rooftop, eventually bore him Solomon, from whom descended all of Judah’s kings, and the promised Messiah.
God loved us so much that he sent his One and Only Son to be born into a family with this ignoble and fraught family tree. His pedigree was entirely human, shot through with sin and messy circumstances. God with us.
In Romans 9, Paul continues writing along these lines, including Rebekah’s words about her warring twins within her womb. “And the Lord said to her, “Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within you shall be divided; the one shall be stronger than the other, the older shall serve the younger” (Genesis 24:23 ESV).
God is almighty, omniscient, and wise. He knew the course of salvation history from before the foundation of the world. Hence, he spelled out this designation between Jacob and Esau before their birth. He foreknew them.
God had many reasons for these dealings, but one crucial reason had to do with us, Gentiles, non-Jews, the teeming multitudes of the rest of humanity.
Could people who were not of this family tree be included in God’s promise and made part of his family?
Could God save our people, who were viewed as being entirely without merit, having no family relation or connection to the Hebrew nation?
Could God save Gentiles? Yes, he can. He always had, all along the way.
Not only did he weave in people from outside the Jewish nation into Jesus’ lineage to get this reality across, but he deliberately set the stage for the promise of relationship with him to clearly be made to all people.
“9 For this is what the promise said: “About this time next year I will return, and Sarah shall have a son.” 10 And not only so, but also when Rebekah had conceived children by one man, our forefather Isaac, 11 though they were not yet born and had done nothing either good or bad—in order that God’s purpose of election might continue, not because of works but because of him who calls—12 she was told, “The older will serve the younger.” 13 As it is written, “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated” (Romans 9:9-13 ESV).
Election. That word that people fight over. Not one of us would come to God on our own, though he beckons each one. He came because he loves the world. The word “election” in Koine Greek is ekloge, and it simply means “choice, selection, the benevolent purpose of God by which any are saved.”
Yes, God can elect to save Gentiles, Paul writes, just as God earlier chose the people and ways in which he wove together a human family for his Son.
The genealogy of Jesus Christ wasn’t random. God worked generation by generation, ovum and sperm by ovum and sperm, to create the shape of God the Son’s messy family. His work was meticulous, microscopic even.
God’s weaving together of the family of faith is likewise meticulous. God, who knew each one of us from before the foundation of the world, hovers over us from conception to death and beyond, shaping our bodies, allowing circumstances we would never have chosen, but which we later discover were essential for drawing us toward God.
Wooing our hearts, God makes us aware of himself through the beauty of his creation and of his words and through the hardship of our trials. Step by step, he draws us to himself. We think we chose him, but he actually chose us, pulling us near.
Wooing our hearts, God makes us aware of himself through the beauty of his creation and of his words and through the hardship of trials. Step by step, he draws us to himself. We think we chose him, but he chose us. Click To TweetGod is personal. God is love. God is intimately involved. God calls us.

And yet, many don’t answer his call, many turn their backs, many don’t see his beauty or hear his voice urging them to step toward him. Even though he knows the outcome, still his call rings throughout the earth, for even the heavens declare the glory of God.
None of us deserve to be saved, for all of us are wretched. As I wrote this post, the events occurred at our Capitol as Congress met to tally the votes of the Electoral College. The wretchedness of humanity was on full, violent, and gory display.
We don’t deserve God’s love, and yet, he loves us. He pursues us.
As God said to Moses, “I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion” (Exodus 33:19).
We don't deserve God's love, and yet, he loves us. He pursues us. "I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion" (Exodus 33:19). Click To Tweet
Our calling is in God’s hands. God planned to include us who are outside of his Jewish family — Gentiles, non-Jews — to join them and also become members of his family for all eternity. This was always his plan.
Through Paul, the Lord said it clearly to ancient Greeks in the Areopagus.
“26 And he made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling place, 27 that they should seek God, and perhaps feel their way toward him and find him. Yet he is actually not far from each one of us, 28 for ‘In him we live and move and have our being’; as even some of your own poets have said, ‘For we are indeed his offspring.’ 29 Being then God’s offspring, we ought not to think that the divine being is like gold or silver or stone, an image formed by the art and imagination of man. 30 The times of ignorance God overlooked, but now he commands all people everywhere to repent, 31 because he has fixed a day on which he will judge the world in righteousness by a man whom he has appointed; and of this he has given assurance to all by raising him from the dead” (Acts 17:26-31 ESV).
So then it depends not on human will or exertion, but on God who has mercy. God calls to each one of us to turn and now go his way, to accept his mercy and love, to become one of his children. He wants us. He longs for us.
If you don’t know him yet, turn to him and welcome him in.
God calls to each one of us to turn and now go his way, to accept his mercy and love, to become one of his children. He wants us. He longs for us. If you don't know him yet, turn to him and welcome him in. Click To TweetAnyone on the planet can become a follower of Christ.
“14 What shall we say then? Is there injustice on God’s part? By no means! 15 For he says to Moses, “I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion.” 16 So then it depends not on human will or exertion, but on God, who has mercy” (Romans 9:14-16 ESV).
When you hear God’s voice calling, for you are near and dear to his heart, when you’re aware of the kindness of his work in your life, and you sense a deep need for him in your soul, turn to him. Turn to him now.
When you hear God's voice calling, for you are near and dear to his heart, when you're aware of the kindness of his work in your life, and you sense a deep need for him in your soul, turn to him. Turn to him now. Click To TweetHe makes “known the riches of his glory for vessels of mercy, which he has prepared beforehand for glory” (Romans 9:23b ESV). That’s us, prepared beforehand like a vessel for the love of God and for his glory to pour into our hearts, transforming our lives.
Give him your heart. Cleave to him in faith. Love him in return. He is faithful, and you will love him forever and ever.
The first post in this Series: Not a Tame Lion

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Amen. Go to God. Give Him your heart. He is waiting with open arms to have a close relationship with you.
Yes, Melissa! Isn’t his mercy incredible and his pursuit of humanity for relationship with him glorious beyond compare!
Amen. Give Him everything and He gives us grace and mercy. Beautiful words of encouragement. Thanks for the reminder to go to God always.
Meditating on God’s Word in these passages mid-book in Romans has been a great encouragement! As a writer and one who loves God, I simply MUST share the beauty of the Lord’s pursuit of us! Thanks for stopping by, Yvonne!
There is so much to contemplate in this piece, Melinda! I appreciate how you pull out the fullness of the scriptures. Incredibly, the God of all creation, calls everyone to Himself. All who accept the gift of salvation in Christ are saved. We all stand in need of His mercy and He freely gives to all who will receive. Yes, God foreknew, yet He spared not His own Son to die for the sins of the world. But we cannot receive a gift unless we take into our hands. Or in this case, into our hearts. The offer stands to all who will receive Him, regardless of messy lineage and lists of past sins. I had to laugh a little to myself. As I was reading, my disabled brother interrupted me repeatedly about little things on his mind. Though our society would throw him away and shout that his life should have been aborted, God in His sovereignty made my brother for His purposes and has displayed His glory through my brother’s life. Our lives with frailties and flaws that are discarded by others are treasured by Jesus Christ who laid down His life to give us eternal life. Praying many will hear His call and receive the gift of all gifts today.
I love this synopsis, Melissa! You tied this all together so succinctly, and I love that you brought your brother into it. Your brother has a purpose, as do all of us who were created by our God. All of us are frail and flawed and often broken, and yet we are “treasured by Jesus Christ who laid down His life to give us eternal life.” ALL of us!
Writing through this section of Scripture is a great blessing. My husband and I have studied it together so many times, and he has taught it to English-speaking groups and also to Hindi- and Malayalam-speaking groups. Digging in by myself in this meaty section of Scripture has been a blessing to me as I revisit and re-examine. My hope and pray is that I may accurately and clearly write of God’s Words, and that these posts will encourage and uplift and bring many to Christ.
A thorough treatment of a topic so often misunderstood.
“Election” is a biblical concept our human nature rails against. Yet the evidence is there from the beginning of Genesis:
God chose Shem. He chose Noah. He chose Abraham over his brother Nahor. He chose Jacob over Esau. He chose Joseph over his brothers.
Yet our human nature pushes back on this topic as if it is foreign and radical!
Ava, we do indeed push! I addressing this portion of Scripture, my goal is to make these ideas accessible to any reader. Since, I’ve studied through this book so many times with my husband and have also written study material for my church from the entirety of Romans, it helps immensely to have the whole picture of the book in my head as I write. What an Overview, right! 🙂
Given God’s omniscience, there is simply no way that he could not already foreknow and predestine given his knowledge of what is yet to occur. Every event that comes our way, comes through his hands.
“…the kindness of His work” What a wonderful phrase. I’ll ponder that.
His work is most definitely kind! A turn of phrase can make a big difference. I’m glad that one touched you, Nancy. Thank you!
Beautifully said, Melinda. And thank you for clearing up that word “election” and its meaning. I’m going to make a note of this for the next time (and there will be a next time) someone asks me about it. Your tweets are always so well crafted! I’m so inspired and blessed by your words and teachings!
Thank you for your kind words, Karen! That’s such an encouragement! About “election,” you are so right. The subject WILL come up. Later in the series I discuss “predestined,” and other terms, as I try to alleviate the misunderstandings about some of these words in Romans 8 – 11. This is a glorious passage, and it’s been a blessing to ponder and write.
Melinda, this post has so much truth and encouragement. I have been thinking recently about how imperfect Jesus’ family tree was. And how God worked through that to make Him relatable for all of us.
“His pedigree was entirely human, shot through with sin and messy circumstances. God with us. . . . God is personal. God is love. God is intimately involved. God calls us.”
As I pray for people close to me who don’t yet have a relationship with Jesus, I’m thinking about your words here. Thank you for sharing this!
Isn’t it astonishing that God chose a human lineage for God the Son that would be considered to be the least of us by so many in our world today and for thousands of years, but which we consider to be the greatest because this family tree brought to us our Messiah. That messy family tree opens wide the door to anyone who wants to enter in, for we are ALL from messy families with secrets and disasters and tragedies wrought by our own flaws and sinfulness. God is good! He opens the door making admittance to his family so enticing, so welcoming, and so precious that I don’t understand how anyone can resist! Thank you for adding these thoughts to the discussion, Jeanne!
I have spent decades studying the scriptures….you have a great way of breaking them down for understanding.. I have never heard anyone speak of messiness, that is in fact so true…all the others and thous confused me and have always had my mind running in circles…PLAIN talk is understanding …I have felt now for 12 years that I have failed as a wife after a horrible divorce of 31 years and felt like I failed on so many levels and going to bible studies where all the women are married is heartbreaking for me. I feel like I failed God in my mess…I just feel stuck!
No matter how you feel, Terri, whether stuck or thinking you’re a failure or any other way your emotions are battering you, remember the truth: God loves you. You did not fail the Lord! You did the best you could in the circumstances. A marriage is comprised of TWO people, and both are accountable to God for how they fulfilled the mandate to love one another. If you loved well, it is not your fault that he didn’t. He has to answer to God for that.
Jesus loves you. He knows what it is like to be betrayed. Everyone ran and/or betrayed him when he faced death, except his mother, the apostle John, and the women who helped his ministry all those years. They stood with him. He had done nothing wrong. In fact, he was doing exactly what he came to do. Yet, he suffered from the disloyalty of his disciples. Therefore, Jesus is able to comfort us in our afflictions. He knows how you feel. Pour out your heart to him. He is always with you, and HE will never leave you nor forsake you. May the Lord comfort you, dear friend!
Melinda thank you for taking the time to help…I have searched for christian divorce groups and seems they all lead to dating sites…UGH….that’s the last thing I need…thanks again
I’m so sorry, Terri! I hope you can find a church that supports people who are divorced. Finding a solid church like that could make all the difference.
Amen, amen! This gets me: “We don’t deserve God’s love, and yet, he loves us. He pursues us.” It’s astounding but such a precious gift! I am truly grateful!
Amen, sister! None of us would seek God, if he didn’t first draw us to him and pursue us. It’s astonishing that he does! I agree!
Amen! It’s amazing to think God chose us individually! I will be preaching on this point in my “Discovering My True Identity” message series next month! God reveals Himself to us in love and compassion!
It truly is amazing, Joshua! The message of salvation is a gift from beginning to end, nothing we can gain through our own efforts, all the Lord! I hope your series is going well! I was unable to address comments while I was traveling.
I love this part of your post because I can resonate with it so much,
“God, who knew each one of us from before the foundation of the world, hovers over us from conception to death and beyond, shaping our bodies, allowing circumstances we would never have chosen, but which we later discover were essential for drawing us toward God.”
He knew I would be fatherless, he knew I would choose drugs as a teen, he knew that all of these experiences, and more, would one day draw me to my Heavenly Father. To be loved by such a tender God, who is intimately involved in our lives is incredible. And his love is not just for me, but for every person on earth. That in itself is mind-blowing.
Another thought-provoking post, Melinda!
It is astonishing what he uses to draw us to himself. I wouldn’t have chosen so very many things, and yet, because I know the Scriptures, I know that those things were necessary, were essential for me to turn to the Lord and to grow in him as a believer. Thanks for adding this here, Marcie!